【婚姻情感-视频+文】夫妻相处之道

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<p style="box-sizing: inherit; margin-bottom: 15px; border: 0px; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", Helvetica, Arial, "Lucida Grande", Tahoma, sans-serif; vertical-align: baseline; hyphens: auto; text-align: justify; user-select: text !important;">             夫妻相处之道<p style="box-sizing: inherit; margin-bottom: 15px; border: 0px; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", Helvetica, Arial, "Lucida Grande", Tahoma, sans-serif; vertical-align: baseline; hyphens: auto; text-align: justify; user-select: text !important;"><video class="" src="https://i3.vzan.cc/upload/video/mp4/20200526/be4ee9c51a514ab68547d9fda24c7971.mp4" poster="https://i2.vzan.cc/upload/image/jpg/20200429/eb12a8ebe0da48fab5224d4c37cbcc4e.jpg" preload="none" loop="loop" controls="controls" width="300" height="150" style="box-sizing: inherit; display: inline-block; vertical-align: baseline; border: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: 17.92px; font-style: inherit; width: 301.204px; max-width: 100%; height: 169.424px;"></video><p style="box-sizing: inherit; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; border: 0px; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", Helvetica, Arial, "Lucida Grande", Tahoma, sans-serif; vertical-align: baseline; hyphens: auto; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; user-select: text !important;"> 很多人以为学佛很深奥，师父告诉你们，学佛用心就可以了。学佛学得好的人，做人也做得好。师父告诉大家，夫妻相处之道要懂得三点，你这辈子就不会吵闹离婚。 <p style="box-sizing: inherit; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; border: 0px; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", Helvetica, Arial, "Lucida Grande", Tahoma, sans-serif; vertical-align: baseline; hyphens: auto; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; user-select: text !important;">第一点，吵完架不能不理不睬打冷战，因为不理不睬，时间太长了，就会有隔离之心和念头出来；<p style="box-sizing: inherit; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; border: 0px; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", Helvetica, Arial, "Lucida Grande", Tahoma, sans-serif; vertical-align: baseline; hyphens: auto; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; user-select: text !important;"> 第二，不能吵架的时候指责对方的父母或者对方非常尊敬的人；<p style="box-sizing: inherit; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; border: 0px; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", Helvetica, Arial, "Lucida Grande", Tahoma, sans-serif; vertical-align: baseline; hyphens: auto; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; user-select: text !important;"> 第三，不能与其他双方认识的朋友去商量你们夫妻之间吵过架的事情，如果这样去告诉别人，当传到自己的妻子或丈夫的耳朵里，你这段婚姻很快就会没有了。所以，学佛人学的是什么？不单单要学佛，还要学人间的智慧，这些都是菩萨给我们人间的智慧。 <p style="box-sizing: inherit; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; border: 0px; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", Helvetica, Arial, "Lucida Grande", Tahoma, sans-serif; vertical-align: baseline; hyphens: auto; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; user-select: text !important;"> 人在不开心的时候，就喜欢对自己最亲的人发脾气，因为你知道，这个对你最亲的人会包容你，但是你忘记了，你往往在发脾气的时候说的话就像一颗钉子一样伤人，就算你是无心的，但那个伤口已经像篱笆的洞一样，给别人的心、给最亲的人的心造成伤害。所以不要乱挥霍你的福德，不要乱挥霍亲人给你的爱，因为这样对别人、对亲人是一种伤害。<p style="box-sizing: inherit; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 16px; border: 0px; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", Helvetica, Arial, "Lucida Grande", Tahoma, sans-serif; vertical-align: baseline; hyphens: auto; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; user-select: text !important;">学佛人以慈悲、善良对人，瞋恨永远不能化解瞋恨，只有慈悲才能化解仇恨——这就是真理。不必和因果争吵，因为因果从来不误人。对人尊重就是庄严自己，尊重别人就是尊重自己，今天能够让别人幸福的人，自己一定是最幸福的人。<p style="box-sizing: inherit; margin-bottom: 15px; border: 0px; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", Helvetica, Arial, "Lucida Grande", Tahoma, sans-serif; vertical-align: baseline; hyphens: auto; text-align: justify; user-select: text !important;">—— 2016.10台北开示<p style="box-sizing: inherit; margin-bottom: 15px; border: 0px; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", Helvetica, Arial, "Lucida Grande", Tahoma, sans-serif; vertical-align: baseline; hyphens: auto; text-align: justify; user-select: text !important;"><img alt="【婚姻情感】（视频+文）夫妻相处之道–2016.10台北" data-original="https://i2.vzan.cc/upload/image/jpg/20200526/3d59efd3cb594836a212d13a05d3b66a.jpg" src="https://i2.vzan.cc/upload/image/jpg/20200526/3d59efd3cb594836a212d13a05d3b66a.jpg" style="box-sizing: inherit; 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